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PostSubject: Help Please!!   Thu Apr 30, 2009 11:45 am

I feel weird doing this. I've always been the one to say a prayer for those who need me. Now here I am doing the asking.

It's been a long, hard two years and I'm so frustrated with the way things are going. I've battled bouts of depression off and on over the last few months. Now those bouts are getting stronger, harder to fight off.

Please help and say a small prayer that I can find the strength to overcome these dark feelings. They honestly scare the hell outta me. I feel I've turned to the right place.

Thanks everyone! I love and appreciate each and everyone of you.
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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Thu Apr 30, 2009 4:59 pm

Oh Denise, I sure will. I know what it's like to be in a funk. I'm kinda in one myself and all kinds of stressed out. Call me. If you don't have my number let me know and I'm PM it to you.

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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Fri May 01, 2009 9:37 pm

Hon, I think you know I have been in thazt dark place more times then I care to admit. Some how with GODS love.. I made it rhough it.. were two peas in a pod hon... you will make it. I say a prayer for you every night. Meeting you just made me feel closer to you. You need to find an income. At this point I would even take up babysitting just so you have somthing to do.. maybe even volintering.. then you will meet others who might be able to help you. Sitting around wont help hon I know. You have to pick yourself up and find new friends.. becausde they wont be able to find you if you dont..(pssst I got that same lecture so I am passing it down to you) lol
seriously I love ya girl and I only wish the best for you


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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Sat May 02, 2009 11:10 am

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Hon, I think you know I have been in thazt dark place more times then I care to admit. Some how with GODS love.. I made it rhough it.. were two peas in a pod hon... you will make it. I say a prayer for you every night. Meeting you just made me feel closer to you. You need to find an income. At this point I would even take up babysitting just so you have somthing to do.. maybe even volintering.. then you will meet others who might be able to help you. Sitting around wont help hon I know. You have to pick yourself up and find new friends.. becausde they wont be able to find you if you dont..(pssst I got that same lecture so I am passing it down to you) lol
seriously I love ya girl and I only wish the best for you

You are such a sweetheart Jodie. You just put a smile on my face today. Thank you! I've been thinking maybe I should just get out more. Treat myself to a movie or something. Get out from under this oppressive atmosphere. Thankfully Brad has my resume finished and it's in the mail. Maybe that's all I need. Something new to get me going again.
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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Sat May 02, 2009 5:41 pm

I am happy that I could get you to smile. You know, I went through job skill training. They taught me to use any and all resorces when it comes to getting whast your looking for. They also taught me that half the battle is contacts.. make one friend and that friend may introduce you to someone else and that one may introduce you to the job of a lifetime.. you never know in this world.. keep your chin up and go volintier!!!!


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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Sun May 03, 2009 10:59 am

Of course we won't forget you in our prayers! (Well, I should say, your request, because everyone in our hearts gets prayed over in our house)
Jodie has some sound advice. Have you gone to Vocational Rehab yet? They'll help you find a job, you know. And they may inventory your strengths in the job field and give you job suggestions you hadn't thought of before. Be careful though, one of the jobs I was ideally suited for was that of a phone sex operator!!!!!
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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Sun May 03, 2009 11:33 am

hahahaha....a phone sex operator????? There's a scarry thought. People say I have a good voice for the phone. That's how I got those annoying telemarketing jobs in the past. ~sigh~
I was talking to Mae last night and she suggested looking into volunteering at a nursing home and take some classes (paid for by the company). I could get some medical training through them. It's worth looking into.
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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Sun May 03, 2009 11:42 am

Oh! I forgot! I've got to remember this little quote:
FAITH IS: Remembering I am God's precious treasure when I feel utterly worthless.


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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Mon May 04, 2009 12:15 am

deni if you can handle it.. mae is right. Deb was a certified nurses aid before her stroke...
see if any of the nurseing homes offer free classes.. if they dont see who you can get help with through paying for them.. as tyggy said voc rehab works wonders!
A cna job pays well.. if you can handle it you really should go for it


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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Mon May 04, 2009 12:33 am

I have worked with the elderly in-home. Mostly working as a live-in companion to seniors who couldn't get out to do errands and stuff like that. It's worth a try.

What would I do without you guys to help me sort through all this shit? LOL
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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Mon May 04, 2009 7:33 am

:ladybug: Gee Deni, sorry to hear you are in a "funk" to use Jodie's word. You are in my thoughts and I agree with the other posts that getting your mind on other projects do help you worked things out. I was a volunteer at a nursing facility years ago and it brought me such pleasure knowing I was making someone else's life better by helping them. May I suggest also going back to school or joining in a art & craft class to help unburden your dark days. I know when I first moved to Carson after my husband was killed, this is what I did and it helped so much getting through my grief. I also started scrapbooking and making my own cards for holidays, birthdays and thank you's.

Keeping the mind active can surely lift your depression. Keep the faith and take care my friend.

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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Mon May 04, 2009 8:59 am

Denise, I like Jodie's idea about volunteering. Sometimes it can lead to employment.:flowerheart:
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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Mon May 04, 2009 10:52 am

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Thank you all for the wonderful suggestions to help me out of my "funk", as Jodie puts it. LOL

I am meeting with my friend Donna on Wednesday to look more into vocational rehab. So there is a start.

CC, thanks for the tip on going back to school. I've talk to several colleges who do on-line classes. Now it's a matter of choosing the one best suited to what I want. I want to upgrade my artistic skills and learn more about computer graphics/animation.

Also....what a blessing grandchildren are
My son called me this morning and I got to talk to my granddaughter, Hailey. I heard her say "grandma" for the first time. And she's almost three. Did my heart melt or what!?

Hey Tyggie.....I have several dozen blessings I'm thankful for and alot of them live right here in my computer. You, Jodie, CC, Renee, Penney, Sandi, Mae, Tammy....just to name a few. {I know, I'm name dropping here} I love you all!!
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Did I mention how eternally grateful I am to have friends like you?
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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Mon May 04, 2009 11:18 pm

that goes both ways my friend!


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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Tue May 05, 2009 12:41 am

big hug AND kissy

Now it's time to get a Hicks fix. There are several places I can go. Hmmmm, adult fic, pervie pictures, Taylor in Pictures. Damn, what do I choose? LOL
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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Tue May 05, 2009 11:51 am

Well, then, sounds like you've got a half way to middle handle on things. Much better than before. And don't forget about telling Voc Rehab about wanting to get back into school - they can help there too!
Drop a dime on me here or email, or myspace or whatever if you need a good joke - I have several stored up....
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PostSubject: Re: Help Please!!   Tue May 05, 2009 12:09 pm

~snickering~ I'm still giggling about that "fly" one you told me. OMG, that was hilarious.

Finally received Brad's package in the mail today with all my resumes. He did an awesome job, giving me several choices on which to choose from. Plus he did a Deni B logo for me and a letterhead. This guy is trully amazing.

So now I'm armed with something. I'm keeping positive these will work. Vocational Rehab, here I come. LOL
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